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Posted: Wednesday, January 27, 2010 - 0 comment(s) [ Comment ] - 0 trackback(s) [ Trackback ]
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For the world you may be someone, but for someone you may be the world!!! Love makes us special! Love is one feeling that makes our life beautiful!!!! But how to make Love long lasting?!! – Here are
a few secret ingredients from my mom’s kitchen to make a perfect love recipe and maintain a relationship!!

First let us see the Don’t Do’s:
1st ingredient:
No hugging n kissing always: Shocked?! But think! Anything done often makes it boring your presence has to be precious. So give some space for everything, at the same time no scheduled business. Loves is beyond time tables, but remember familiarity breeds to contempt !
2nd ingredient:
Don’t hesitate to say ‘I’m sorry’: When you realize of doing a mistake, kneel down with a rose in ur hand n say sorry as soon as possible!! Do not have EGO! The major cause for the ruin of many relationships is definitely Ego!
3rd ingredient:
Trouble lies in LIE: White Lies like ‘you look great today’ are very necessary for love. But don’t lie about yourself at any cost. Coz it may make Ur.p( ur partner’s) suspect later.
If u suspect Ur.p , then talking is the only solution. ( u need not go to communication classes !!!) and do not rely on what others say. Believe your partner!
4th ingredient:
No dragging in past relationships: Often we have misunderstandings and we quarrel at each other (coz mating after fighting is great thrill!) but do not drag Ur.p’s past relationships. If you do so then …it may be your last quarrel!
5th ingredient:
Don’t ever comment on your partner before others: You can very well talk about Ur p’s positive points before everyone in a loud voice. But don’t ever talk about the negative points in front of others!
Can you tolerate if Ur.p say that you snore at night or you have developed pounds around ur belly before others?!
So keep yourself in Ur.p’s shoes before you talk!
Now Do’s:
6th ingredient:
Care your partner: spare time for Ur.p. Especially when he/she is ill. Don’t be clichéd by sending a get well soon card or sms! Be creative! Make your own card. Let it be damn bad. But believe me, your partner would love it!
But the best way is to take care of ur love in person. Coz a person feels very lonely when he/she is ill. If u make a small move now, then Ur.p’s love for you will be doubled n tripled!!!
7th ingredient:
Respect others views n tastes: You don’t like hip hop. But Ur.p does. You like literature. But Ur.p doesn’t know even Shakespeare!
Do you know that a relationship becomes interesting when people with different tastes come together? But please don’t boast about your tastes n abilities. Even if you don’t like, go to a hip hop dance show with Ur.p. Then the next time your partner will take you to a book exhibition!!!
8th ingredient:
Surprises: Everyone talks about surprises. Don’t give what you like, but give what Ur.p likes. You may love adventures, but you can’t make your partner to do scuba diving or bungee jumping!! Even if you don’t like, learn to feel happy by seeing your partner enjoying his/her surprise (very filmy!!)
The last n the most important 9th ingredient:
LOVE: The main thing to make a perfect relationship recipe is Love and Love only!!!
Let me conclude with a small conversation b/w a boy and a girl in love.
G: Am I pretty?
B: No!
G: Do you want to live with me?
B: No!
G: Will you cry if I leave you?
B: No!
The girl starts crying. Boy pulls her close to him and said “You are not pretty, but you are the prettiest! I don’t want to live with you, but I want to live for you!!
If you leave me, I won’t cry but DIE!!!!”
This is Love. Spread Love! Enjoy Life!!!!!

Posted: Thursday, January 21, 2010 - 0 comment(s) [ Comment ] - 0 trackback(s) [ Trackback ]
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Relationship advice and tips are always a hot topic among any age group, showing that love is not something you always come to understand over time. Different people rub each other in different ways and sometimes things just happen and there's really nothing anybody can do about it. So are there any clear-cutrelationship advice and tips that can help just about anybody? Definitely!

Know when you're right, and know when you're wrong. Don't always assume that you're right or that your significant other is wrong, look at things from a logical point of view. Many people look at things with a clear bias towards their side without even realizing it and come off as a sort of bully in some cases.

Respect your partner's wishes. You may not agree with them sometimes, but never force the person you're in a relationship with to do something they don't want to do. You don't like to be bossed around, do you? Why would the person you love?

Consider your partner's feelings at all times. This pertains mostly to men because they often ignore how the woman feels and accidentally hurt their feelings without even realizing it. Think about what your partner is comfortable with and likes and work with it, not against it. If it's drastically different from what you like or want to do, then you might be better off with someone who is more like you.

Trust your significant other. Trust is a big component in long term and meaningful relationships, and often when there is no trust the relationship doesn't last very long. If one or both of you do not trust each other and drag the relationship on it's going to lead to some pretty big fall downs in the future. Clear up your trust issues as soon as possible and learn to love your partner for who they are.

Don't take a "What's mine is mine" approach to things. Share your belongings with your partner, it will make them feel special and like they're really a part of your life. You may not like letting other people touch your stuff, but if you love each other chances are you'll be living together at some point and then you have to share things with each other. It's not as tough as it sounds.

These are the most all-encompassing relationship advice and tips you can get and will solve or prevent most problems that come along in any relationship. Many people don't realize what they've done wrong until it's too late and it feels awful to lose a relationship because of a simple problem that you could have worked out very easily. If you love the person you're with, you're going to be willing to make some changes and sacrifices to keep things strong and last as long as possible together.

Posted: Thursday, January 21, 2010 - 5 comment(s) [ Comment ] - 0 trackback(s) [ Trackback ]
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Healthy relationships are fun and make you feel good about yourself. You can have a healthy relationship with anyone in your life, including your family, friends and dating partners. Relationships take time, energy, and care to make them healthy. The relationships that you make in your teen years will be a special part of your life and will teach you some of the most important lessons about who you are. This guide was written to help you understand different kinds of relationships, what makes each relationship special, and how to communicate in a positive way. We have included common stories and fun ways to work on many kinds of relationships.

 

What makes a relationship healthy?

Communication & Sharing: The most important part of any healthy relationship between two people is being able to talk and listen to one another. You and the other person can figure out what your common interests are. You can share your feelings with the other person and trust that they will be there to listen and support you. In healthy relationships, people don't lie. Communication is based on honesty and trust. By listening carefully and sharing your thoughts and feelings with another person, you show them that they are an important part of your life.

 

Respect and Trust: In healthy relationships, you learn to respect and trust important people in your life. Disagreements may still happen, but you learn to stay calm and talk about how you feel. Talking calmly helps you to understand the real reason for not getting along, and it's much easier to figure out how to fix it. In healthy relationships, working through disagreements often makes the relationship stronger. In healthy relationships, people respect each other for who they are. This includes respecting and listening to yourself and your feelings so you can set boundaries and feel comfortable. You will find that you learn to understand experiences and feelings of others as well as having them understand your experiences and feelings.

 

How do I know that I have a healthy relationship with someone?

  • You know that you are in a healthy relationship with someone because you feel good about yourself when you are around that person. Unhealthy relationships can make you feel sad, angry, scared, or worried.
  • Healthy peer relationships involve an equal amount of give and take in the relationship. In unhealthy relationships, there is an unfair balance. You may feel that most of the time you are giving the other person more attention than they give to you.
  • You should feel safe around the other person and feel that you can trust him/her with your secrets. In a healthy relationship, you like to spend time with the other person, instead of feeling like you're pressured into spending time with them. Unhealthy relationships do not include trust and respect, which are very important parts of a family relationship, good friendship, or dating relationship. No one deserves to be in an unhealthy relationship.